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Topic	Why do you think you're disliked on PotD?
KogaSteelfang 02/05/18 10:13:41 PM #39:	keyblader1985 posted... KogaSteelfang posted... Doesn't the loneliness ever get to you? Iirc you're in a similar situation when it comes to dating. How do you cope with feeling unwanted without blaming yourself? I used to be down on myself, back in the first couple years that I was here. Frankly, I just got tired of being that way. I knew nobody liked me being like that, and that nothing would ever change as long as I kept that attitude. I can't say I don't occasionally lose some hope, especially now that I'm getting older and not much has changed. But I always hang onto the belief that I'll get what I want out of life someday, and in the meantime I work on myself a little bit every day. And I learned to count my blessings and appreciate what I do have. But to be honest, even if I occasionally feel hopeless, the thought that I'm worthless doesn't occur to me. I don't think that of anyone, barring mass killers or Hitler-esque people (and even they're at least worth studying to see how their personality/brain works for future prevention). I used to be that way. I believed things would work out and I'd eventually find what I was looking for. I used to be quite a positive person, somewhere over the last few years, I lost that. I guess all the negativity I had bottled up finally popped and just over ran everything. Now I'm stuck in this stupid hopeless mindset and I can't figure out how to go back. I was much happier then and mostly in the same situation, I don't know what changed. --- Switch FC: SW-3227-7104-3140 Mario Kart 8, Splatoon 2. Add me if you want. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:895541953] in Why do you... [t:76283227]...</cite> <quote><cite>keyblader1985 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>Doesn't the loneliness ever get to you? Iirc you're in a similar situation when it comes to dating. How do you cope with feeling unwanted without blaming yourself?</quote> I used to be down on myself, back in the first couple years that I was here. Frankly, I just got tired of being that way. I knew nobody liked me being like that, and that nothing would ever change as long as I kept that attitude. I can't say I don't occasionally lose some hope, especially now that I'm getting older and not much has changed. But I always hang onto the belief that I'll get what I want out of life someday, and in the meantime I work on myself a little bit every day. And I learned to count my blessings and appreciate what I do have. But to be honest, even if I occasionally feel hopeless, the thought that I'm worthless doesn't occur to me. I don't think that of anyone, barring mass killers or Hitler-esque people (and even they're at least worth studying to see how their personality/brain works for future prevention).</quote> I used to be that way. I believed things would work out and I'd eventually find what I was looking for. I used to be quite a positive person, somewhere over the last few years, I lost that. I guess all the negativity I had bottled up finally popped and just over ran everything. Now I'm stuck in this stupid hopeless mindset and I can't figure out how to go back. I was much happier then and mostly in the same situation, I don't know what changed. --- Switch FC: SW-3227-7104-3140 Mario Kart 8, Splatoon 2. Add me if you want.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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