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Topicwelp, I got a "we need to talk today" text on my way to work
Renraku_San
02/13/18 11:23:15 AM
#314:


RCtheWSBC posted...
FrisbeeDude posted...
Damn...y'all weren't even dating that long, right? Maybe he wanted an Friends with benefits thing? Secret girlfriend on the side?!

His father has diabetes and almost died from it. This past week he found out he also has lung cancer. He said he realized that he isn't ready to date seriously and it wouldn't be fair to hurt me down the road.


Complete BS. Everyone in this thread is like "awww sowwy rc, thoughts and prayers", but cmon, everyone needs honest feedback. It's sob story excuse - an easy way for him to dump you and not feel bad about it.

Also, you said it was only a month, that's like nothing, you shouldn't take getting dumped after a measly month hard at all (are you 16 or a grown ass woman?). Also, you hooked up pretty damn fast, no time to build any connection. when that happens, either party can lose interest depending on how the sex went. If you had built a connection first, perhaps it would've lasted after the sex, because the sex would've been more enjoyable. It was also your choice to hookup that early, so you were kinda looking to hookup.

So my take - he didn't enjoy the sex and is moving on, using his sob story to make it easier to dump you. If you got that attached after 1 month and are crying now, you are probably a level 3 on the clinger scale - fell way too fast, had sex too fast, caught feels, etc.
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