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Topicwelp, I got a "we need to talk today" text on my way to work
Doctor Foxx
02/13/18 2:02:05 PM
#348:


Rockies posted...
I mean, this guy had to at least know some kind of issues like that would be coming up. Even if they're actually things that happened, still sounds like he was just looking for a hookup all along. This is what happens when you bone within a month of knowing someone. If they really like you and want it to be serious too, they'll be able to wait.

Uh what. A month isn't that fast to start getting sexual. I question how many people saying that have dated much in the last few years. Or decade.

I was in this guy's shoes last year. I was surprisingly fucked up about my dad's cancer and other family things, and I broke it off with someone I really cared about. I did not have the time or energy to deal with my family's shit and maintaining any relationship. Wish I'd handled it better. I didn't see that coming. I was doing ok and just reached a point where it felt like everything was sinking. We were together much longer than a month at that point too.

It's really shitty this happened. Any of you shaming that the sex was too soon, get over yourselves. You're clearly out of touch with how things progress between people in romantic situations. There's nothing wrong with both parties wanting to explore things sexually within a month and you'll find waiting a month is not close to the norm.
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