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TopicMy gf and I fight pretty regularly over familial obligations
Balrog0
02/18/18 2:40:30 PM
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I told her I didn't want to visit her parents today and she hasn't spoken to me since (except for us to argue) even when I ask her questions directly

Her reasoning for why I should go is basically that we haven't been in a few weeks. Well, the back story there is that she used to go every single Sunday and I went with her for a long time but I told her I didn't want to have a standing obligation every single Sunday for the rest of my life and I wasn't going to do that any more. So she started going every other week and still expects me to go with.

The frustrating thing is she is taking that literally. So I didn't go last week, which means I should go this week. But we'v already seen her family (briefly) twice this week -- and I really meant it more like I don't want to go see our parents regularly.

For reference I haven't even seen my parents since before Christmas. Both of our parents live more or less right down the street from each other so it's not because of distance.

Im starting to believe that I don't think I can make this relationship work
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