LogFAQs > #896348231

It's a touchy subject. I used to and didn't really want anyone talking to me at the time. Eventually it got to the point where I moved to my ankles since I was sick of people asking about it...

All I'll be able to say is what I noticed of myself and my friends who cut - they KNOW that nobody can understand how they feel and it's VERY VERY hard to convince them otherwise. However, part of them is probably openly displaying them because they do want to be helped.

Seriously, just try and make sure they know that you'll be there for them should they need it and try to include/invite them as much as possible for group events. Even if they turn you down, sometimes the security knowing that someone is thinking about them will be enough to seek help.

Also, don't pull the "you need to see a psychiatrist" card unless you're close enough with them and know how they'd react to that advice.