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TopicMy friend cried because I didn't give her $20 when she came to borrow money.
Darkman124
02/19/18 2:45:26 PM
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AlisLandale posted...

And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness.


nah directness got him no conversation

he manipulated his way into a conversation and got the clear message "you will never see that money again or any other"

now personally? i wouldnt bother with the conversation

i would take the social clue that the person is a leech when they didnt pay me back or respond when asked, and cut them off without saying anything further

but some people--esp men wrt women--want concrete evidence that the person does not value them before they cut their losses
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