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Topicdo you think internet is good place to find girls or love?
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04/23/18 12:52:05 PM
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GreenKnight127 posted...
The best way, in my opinion, requires a very specific combination of situations and the assistance of others:

1.) Have friends. The more diverse their characters, the better (aka: don't just hang with the same 3 people who are all basically the same people with same interests. Get some variety. Have some athlete friends. Have some graphic designer friends. Have some electrician friends. Introverts, extroverts. Friends who like to party, friends who like to Netflix.)

2.) Encourage socializing as large groups on a camping trip, paintball trips, hiking trips, house parties.

3.) Make sure they invite THEIR friends you havent met!

That's it. Seriously. That recipe alone leads to strong relationships that will last. Friends-of-friends. You meet them in a safe, comfortable environment, and you both have at least ONE strong friend in common. They get to see you interact with them in a casual, honest way....and you get to see them interact in a casual and honest way. You get to see the true version of a total stranger, and that's how you get to know someone.

And if you decide to start dating each other, you will be able to go out with that group of friends again and it will be super comfortable because everyone is friends.

And, if these people are "truly" your friends.......they will support your relationship, which is EXTREMELY helpful.

Not necessarily. I have a bunch of friends. Maybe it's a little different because finding a same sex partner can be a little harder, but it doesn't always work. I have my close friends that I'm most of the time. Very diverse group. And we also have our friends who are not as close, but hang out a lot. And my other groups of friends that I would hang out with as well. Just having and hangout with friend isn't always enough. Whether you're looking or not. I do agree that friend's should definitely support the relationship. But as you're talking about meeting friends of friends that you don't know well, they're could be a reason they are warning you... The closest O ever got to having a relationship with a friend of a friend(who was eventually a friend) was with a guy who I'm sure he was straight, but there was something once at a party. I always wondered how it would have turned out if he didn't have to leave... He was cute...

That being said, I actually did meet my current SO online. Actually, I straight up hook-up app. We met up once, then a couple more times. Then we sort of had something, then he moved back to town, and it took off from there... I mean, there's more, but that's the just of it.
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