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GanglyKhan posted...

AllstarSniper32 posted...

That's kind of what divorce does. It ruins your life unless you're the one that wants a divorce and out of the marriage. Do you think that all divorces are mutual splits?

I think you have either an extremely biased view or just a narrow understanding of life based on what you're saying here. Were you or someone close to you involved in a divorce that was life ruining? It certainly does happen, but I and many others can guarantee you that divorces are not always as messy and/or as awful as they're made out to be.

uh huh, cause in any of my posts I specifically said all divorces are messy and awful.

Even in the post you quoted you must not have read it properly. I said,

AllstarSniper32 posted...

It ruins your life unless you're the one that wants a divorce and out of the marriage.

This means one person is happy or fine with the marriage and is living life while the other person wants out for whatever reason. But I don't say that's how all divorces are. Just how it can ruin life for a person in that situation.

Of course there's times when both people mutually want out of the marriage. But even if that's the case, if those people have kids, it's usually not going to be so simple for the kids.

But if you're married to someone, you don't have any kids and you're both fine with divorcing, you'll probably be better off apart.
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