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Darmik posted...

You still don't get it.

I'm not saying that it's the same situation. I'm saying these situations are complicated and aren't there easy solutions.

You're saying there's an easy answer for a person who has lived with their parents for a decade. What makes you an expert on this? How many people in your family have had mental issues and what have you done to 'solve' them?

To write off my experience as 'shitty people' really shows that you're likely incredibly ignorant about actually dealing with troubled people.

I have troubled friends and family members. We have worked together with everyone else to support these people and get them on the right track. Only one friend failed, and it was because he became a coke addict.

It takes work. Which is why I'm saying these parents failed. You don't give up on your child like that, especially if they obviously have mental issues.

Darmik posted...

Yeah because they wanted to force him out of the house.

Do you think they spent nothing on him while he lived unemployed at home? Why do you think paying for his rent would solve this issue again?

Again, it creates responsibility because the real world isn't as forgiving. I have seen this get resolved tons of times by having the person be on his own. Being dependant on parents and even friends gives people a "oh they wouldn't mind" attitude. When it's fucking a corporate company asking you for bills, you have no choice but to fuck up your credit or pay.

Darmik posted...

Your problem seems to be that you think family matters have good guys and bad guys with simple answers.

If only this family had your intellect to give them this easy answer of paying his rent for 6 months and everything being okay somehow

You're still projecting and being biased.
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