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Topic	Is it usually the Best Man who organizes the bachelor party?
ParanoidObsessive 06/12/18 9:03:46 PM #12:	InfestedAdam posted... Is it usually the Best Man who organizes the bachelor party? Yes. InfestedAdam posted... Or the Maiden of Honor organizing the bachelorette party. Yes. InfestedAdam posted... Was this never a "tradition" of sort or it really just depends on the individual? It's absolutely the tradition and the expectation. But obviously, some people won't want big pre-wedding parties, so they may tell their Best Man/Maid of Honor not to do anything. Or in some cases the Best Man/Maid of Honor may be too lazy or stupid to do it, and may defer to someone else in the wedding party, another family member, or just another friend who is willing to set it up. Or in some cases, the Best Man/Maid of Honor may know someone who is just SO much better at organizing and setting up parties that they just defer to that person because they know it will make for a way better party. When I was Best Man for my friend, I had to organize everything, but I asked him in advance what he wanted to do so I could set stuff up for him, and not just assume what he wanted to do or do the usual Hollywood version where the groomsmen are kind of assholes and drag the somewhat unwilling groom off to a strip club or get him a hooker or something. We wound up doing a whole day trip thing, where we went golfing, went to a casino and gambled for a bit, and went to the obligatory strip club (and we rented a party limo bus for the day to road trip from place to place while we were drinking heavily in the back). But every groom (and bride) is going to have their own interests and expectations, so different people will do different things for parties. --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family <cite>ParanoidObsessive posted [p:903120090] in Is it usua... [t:76703718]...</cite> <quote><cite>InfestedAdam posted...</cite> <quote>Is it usually the Best Man who organizes the bachelor party?</quote> Yes. <cite>InfestedAdam posted...</cite> <quote>Or the Maiden of Honor organizing the bachelorette party.</quote> Yes. <cite>InfestedAdam posted...</cite> <quote>Was this never a "tradition" of sort or it really just depends on the individual?</quote> It's absolutely the tradition and the expectation. But obviously, some people won't want big pre-wedding parties, so they may tell their Best Man/Maid of Honor not to do anything. Or in some cases the Best Man/Maid of Honor may be too lazy or stupid to do it, and may defer to someone else in the wedding party, another family member, or just another friend who is willing to set it up. Or in some cases, the Best Man/Maid of Honor may know someone who is just SO much better at organizing and setting up parties that they just defer to that person because they know it will make for a way better party. When I was Best Man for my friend, I had to organize everything, but I asked him in advance what he wanted to do so I could set stuff up for him, and not just assume what he wanted to do or do the usual Hollywood version where the groomsmen are kind of assholes and drag the somewhat unwilling groom off to a strip club or get him a hooker or something. We wound up doing a whole day trip thing, where we went golfing, went to a casino and gambled for a bit, and went to the obligatory strip club (and we rented a party limo bus for the day to road trip from place to place while we were drinking heavily in the back). But every groom (and bride) is going to have their own interests and expectations, so different people will do different things for parties. --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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