So you criticize that intersex people are unrelated, then ignore chromosomes to bring up genitals. Sayoria has a vagina, thanks for verifying she's a woman. <3
And then you bring up sports and society which are unrelated. What the fuck.
No, she has penis that has been modified to resemble a vagina. There is a difference.
The problem with bringing up intersex people is that you're acting like it's some golden goose. The fact that they do not fall into the normal definition of sex does not mean the normal definition of sex is lacking or wrong. They are deformed. It doesn't mean they are lesser people because of it, but that's all it is. People being born with more or less fingers does not mean we need to redefine the idea of how hands work.
The point about sports and society is that transpeople should be accepted and not discriminated against for being transpeople. The problem with people of your mindset is that you want to extend that further and dictate how people have to think.
Can I has sex like a woman? Yes. Must I pee like a woman? Yes. Can women who are born with a vagina be unable to give birth to babies? Yes.
So like.... what difference does it make if mine is neo or not?
Similarly, yes, but that doesn't change the fact that it's a cosmetic change (in terms of what it actually is at the end of the day, a surgically modified penis). It's perfectly fine for someone to be attracted to you, and I would not classify it as "gay" for someone to have sex with you. I will gladly call you female with no hesitation, but that does not change the base biological reality. If that is not an issue for some people, all the power to them.
I don't know what you are talking about. When I got my SRS, they changed my chromosomes to XX.