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Topic	Coffee Meets Bagel is the most hypocritical dating app
bob742omb 07/10/18 9:24:08 PM #11:	Muffinz0rz posted... E32005 posted... so glad i'm married. how do you guys put up with this uppity, no substance, tinder-dating shit? Because it's the easiest path to take at this point. It's still pretty tough to blind approach someone at a museum or park or where-the-fuck-ever at this point since everyone's walls are so up. The bar is the exception where it's generally encouraged to at least go talk to people, but going to a bar alone isn't exactly a good first impression, so then you're stuck with building a group of friends to go, planning a date, place, all that shit that comes with "bar crawling," all for a chance at striking up a conversation with someone. muffin is 100% right on all points here. approaching someone during the day is not worth it. there's a reason why most guys never do it consistently: the effort in doesn't match the reward out. daygaming is a meme, honestly. i have not done bar crawling but it does not sound like it'd be fun. online dating really is the easiest path, but it really takes time and girls' standards on dating apps are pretty high up (understandably so, since they have a solid chance with the top 10%-15% of men right at their fingertips). online dating is also pretty low investment, so if you get rejected it's like "ok whatever" as opposed to being rejected in person (which really stings). with how interconnected everyone is, it's really hard to find a "hidden gem" as a guy. just have to get lucky with your social circles and who you know, honestly. --- bob the buster https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFNtqC0ETqo <cite>bob742omb posted [p:904852616] in Coffee Mee... [t:76789337]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>E32005 posted...</cite> <quote>so glad i'm married. how do you guys put up with this uppity, no substance, tinder-dating shit?</quote> Because it's the easiest path to take at this point. It's still pretty tough to blind approach someone at a museum or park or where-the-fuck-ever at this point since everyone's walls are so up. The bar is the exception where it's generally encouraged to at least go talk to people, but going to a bar alone isn't exactly a good first impression, so then you're stuck with building a group of friends to go, planning a date, place, all that shit that comes with "bar crawling," all for a chance at striking up a conversation with someone.</quote> muffin is 100% right on all points here. approaching someone during the day is not worth it. there's a reason why most guys never do it consistently: the effort in doesn't match the reward out. daygaming is a meme, honestly. i have not done bar crawling but it does not sound like it'd be fun. online dating really is the easiest path, but it really takes time and girls' standards on dating apps are pretty high up (understandably so, since they have a solid chance with the top 10%-15% of men right at their fingertips). online dating is also pretty low investment, so if you get rejected it's like "ok whatever" as opposed to being rejected in person (which really stings). with how interconnected everyone is, it's really hard to find a "hidden gem" as a guy. just have to get lucky with your social circles and who you know, honestly. --- bob the buster https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFNtqC0ETqo</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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