Is that why choosing not to date transgendered people gets you labeled a bigot?
you're not a bigot if you decide you don't want to date or fuck a trans person no one is entitled to sex, relationships, or even a conversation with you if someone's butthurt demanding you support trans rights, you're already doing that by leaving them the fuck alone that's your contribution, if someone doesn't think that's enough, tough shit
just remember there's a big difference between saying "all trans folk are unattractive" and "i haven't found a trans person i felt was attractive enough to date"
if someone is dumb enough to try and call you out for saying the latter, remind their stupid ass that they don't have the right to dictate what you're supposed to think is attractive, only you determine that
and its entirely possible to do all that above without being a complete jackass towards trans folk you don't like getting slaughtered by a savage rejection? hey guess what: neither do trans people let them down easy like you would want done with you...
but also: people's preferences are heavily informed by society
society is transphobic
so it's perfectly reasonable to assume that some of this societal transphobia would find its way into someone's preferences ---