dying you really dont have to get defensive. it's easy to admit when ur wrong i do it all the time
Lol. I mean, no one wants to actually discuss, as minds were likely already made up before entering.
Anything I have to say is just my personal anecdote. I may as well just troll or exit the thread. It is what it is.
Its weird how you dont understand that countless studies trump your anecdote
I never said it did, as we are gonna have to wait a few years before I can even have an anecdote lol. I was kinda poking fun at the use of word, is why I even said it.
We'll wait till he's in high school, then I'll let y'all know how things turned out. If he's violent or not.
Or you can be a decent person who teaches their child that violence isnt an acceptable or intelligent or worthwhile way to get what you want.
But yeah sure just wait and see if he figures that out on his own instead.
We do teach him that. We teach him not to hit, kick, bite or scratch. We teach him to share and not steal. We teach him to wait his turn. We teach him please and thank you.
So far, spanking on rare occasions hasnt interfered with us teaching him not to hit, no more than grounding him from toys (taking things away from him) has interfered with us teaching him to share or not to steal.
As I stated before. First time, it's a warning, then time out, then toys taken away. Lastly, it's spanking. Spanking has only been reached a couple of times.
We teach him not to be violent but also teach him that violence and threats of violence are effective ways to get people to act how you want is not good parenting. ---
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