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Topic	Are you an ONLY CHILD or do you have SIBLINGS???
Dikitain 10/31/18 3:53:40 PM #35:	Kyuubi4269 posted... Dikitain posted... That is a deflection from my question, not an answer. What is expected and what is preferred are two separate things. And humans are expected to innately deal with their peers by communication. It's preferred that you grow adept swiftly, it is expected that you become adept eventually. Now I remember why I have you tagged as Donald Trump... Dikitain posted... And a big part of that parenting is making sure that you have siblings to associate with. LOL Your mother is not obligated to birth you a plaything! Parents are obligated to raise stable well adjusted kids, and part of that is making sure they have proper social interaction. Siblings are hardly "playthings", they are a requirement to being a well adjusted human. Dikitain posted... You can't just tell a kid "don't be a pussy", you have to actually show them why they shouldn't be scared. You make the kid do what they're scared of and see how simple and harmless it always was. Evidently you were allowed to avoid peers and not establish necessary skills. Yea that doesn't work if you haven't normalized it in the first place. I still remember my first day of pre-school as one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. A dozen kids running around a room, screaming. I was only like 4 years old but I still remember taking one look and running back to the car begging my mom to take me home. Even today the sounds of kids screaming make me want to run and hide over 30 years later. --- I am a senior software engineer. If you see me post here, I am tired of writing TPS reports. <cite>Dikitain posted [p:911532564] in Are you an... [t:77151675]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dikitain posted...</cite> <quote>That is a deflection from my question, not an answer. What is expected and what is preferred are two separate things. </quote> And humans are expected to innately deal with their peers by communication. It's preferred that you grow adept swiftly, it is expected that you become adept eventually.</quote> Now I remember why I have you tagged as Donald Trump... <quote><cite>Dikitain posted...</cite> <quote>And a big part of that parenting is making sure that you have siblings to associate with.</quote> LOL Your mother is not obligated to birth you a plaything!</quote> Parents are obligated to raise stable well adjusted kids, and part of that is making sure they have proper social interaction. Siblings are hardly "playthings", they are a requirement to being a well adjusted human. <quote><cite>Dikitain posted...</cite> <quote>You can't just tell a kid "don't be a pussy", you have to actually show them why they shouldn't be scared.</quote> You make the kid do what they're scared of and see how simple and harmless it always was. Evidently you were allowed to avoid peers and not establish necessary skills.</quote> Yea that doesn't work if you haven't normalized it in the first place. I still remember my first day of pre-school as one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. A dozen kids running around a room, screaming. I was only like 4 years old but I still remember taking one look and running back to the car begging my mom to take me home. Even today the sounds of kids screaming make me want to run and hide over 30 years later. --- I am a senior software engineer. If you see me post here, I am tired of writing TPS reports.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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