A lot to unpack since I last checked this topic. Can't go through it all now but this jumped out at me:
Kungfu Kenobi posted...
I'm more concerned with what your kid thinks
This discussion was entirely between my wife and I. Kids weren't involved in the argument aspect. But as far as when the situation took place, it started raining and a cold wind blew in so the coaches called the games early. My son was cold and seemed more concerned with getting out of the rain than with what snack he was having. The lack of a donut for him didn't seem to phase him at all, which is another reason I think it's less of a big deal than my wife was making it out to be.
Also, this isn't creating some rift between my wife and I. It's something we disagree on, but we disagree on a lot of things. Our relationship is healthy. Not going to argue that perhaps we could use couples counseling, because I believe all couples/families could benefit from (at the very least) some counseling. Those concerned with how I worded this topic/poll - it was done very tongue-in-cheek. I'm not angry, my wife isn't angry. It's a simple disagreement.
You were right, your wife was wrong in this case. Give her a big kiss. ---
"how hard is it for people to understand that not everything you read will be something you agree with?" - Awesome