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catboy0_0 posted...

ImTheMacheteGuy posted...

I tried to help catboy but he wasn't listening and admitted to not even reading my posts.

I did but you came across as "I'm better than you"

Well I don't know why you thought that. I barely know anything about you. I didn't criticize your drinking habits and even admitted that mine are bad as well. Even so, your perception of where I was coming from shouldn't invalidate anything I said from your point of view. You really should take to heart what I said even if you don't trust me as a source for advice. I know you have trust issues. You mentioned that. So do I. You can trust what I've said without having to trust me specifically. If you want, just think the only investment I have in attempting to help you is to stroke my own ego. I would gain nothing by giving bad advice. If my objective was to makes matters worse for you or perpetuate the ongoing drama, I would have trolled and flamed like some others did. I did not.

Many suggesting getting help. I didn't suggest that. I think it would be a good idea, but I myself am terrible at seeking help and shut down when people try to push me to it, so it isn't an angle I'm inclined to take when talking to people that I feel I can relate to, as they may be the same way and may be put off at the suggestion. I see where you're coming from and I've been there. I've used my own experiences to reflect and I've offered them to you so that maybe you could reflect as well and figure out how to break the negative cycle that you are in so that you won't continue to experience the strife that you experienced which led to that topic being made.
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