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_Matchabuu_ posted...

Cleo_II posted...

I can say Im surrounded by plenty of amazing women who are awesome to each other. Ive had no problem making female friends. These girls have helped me through the worst of times. Ive had others act as mentors to me. Im sorry that hasnt been your experience but please dont generalize like that against women.

Thats definitely good, but society is what encourages women to not empower each other. Im saying that women shouldnt form to society setting them up against each other.

And I havent had really any positive people in my life male or female but almost every woman Ive tried to befriend irl is the type that puts other women down for the sake of being appealing.

E.g. not being like other girls and being actively anti feminist and shitting on other women to seem interesting

And its not just me either.

There are definitely women who tear each other down. As do men to each other. Its a sign of insecurity. But what I dont agree with is that women as a whole are catty to each other. Its a terrible stereotype and it bothers me when I hear it. Women are more social than men and far better at forming support groups and encouraging/helping each other. Hell at my last job, the girls would put post its on the bathroom mirror with encouraging words like You got this etc and we tried to do girls lunches with all the women in the office.

If all youre experiencing is bitchy catty women, then you have to look at the common denominator. Thats not a shot at you but maybe think on how youre running into these kind of women and why. Your low self esteem might mean that you unconsciously gravitate to negative women, or maybe you come across negatively to them.