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I think you gave the right answer, which is to say, her doing it would now be pretty disrespectful. It is weird.

RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...

You need to balance the power which means begging. You beg to her to turn back and come home while explaining why you want it. If she listens then your relationship is saved. You let her go meet with the ex but you make it clear she can't do this again alone.

She's not fucking him. If she was, then this would be the 84th sign

You either ARE trying to fuck with tc or you're clueless. Framing, persuasion and sophistry aside, his girlfriend KNOWS how uncomfortable he is with it. It means she's more into this other guy. What she is doing is not normal.

Yes, he should've made a more assertive statement instead of being passive, but that doesn't mean he has to BEG now. That is is ridiculous.

TC, if she goes after what you told her, she has NO interest in the relationship with you! If she goes, she's making an easy decision for you!

If you BEG her as this user suggests, or if you let her do it despite how she KNEW you felt, you will be in a dead relationship. Maybe you'll get dumped this year, maybe in ten years, but you will be MISERABLE and you will always remember that guy.