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Topic	1 In 16 Women Reports First Sexual Experience As Rape
Bio1590 09/17/19 11:25:35 AM #89:	legendary_zell posted... All I'll say is that if you guys have female friends, listen to them. They might tell you about some experiences that are horrifying and eye opening. There's a lot of otherwise "normal" people who have really messed up ideas about how sex works and where the boundaries are. They don't think of themselves as rapists and think of themselves as good people, but they're leaving a lot of scars. We should all do our best not to be one of those people, and the best way to do that is to define what's acceptable by enthusiastic consent, not what we want to do or are allowed to do. @legendary_zell I know you meant to say female so I edited it here and you can edit your original. But yeah that's basically what I said earlier in the topic. If they trust you enough to confide in you you learn some FUCKED things. And sometimes they "tell" you in the way things are phrased but it's not obvious. Like I have one friend who once said "I wish I could have waited" (for her first time) and that's how I found out, and it happening completely changed the course of her life and still impacts her. --- https://imgur.com/bbRWLI8 https:/i.imgur.com/S1m3po4.jpg https://imgur.com/A0BErSV https://imgur.com/7fCcfko <cite>Bio1590 posted [p:927561631] in 1 In 16 Wo... [t:78020052]...</cite> <quote>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>All I'll say is that if you guys have female friends, listen to them. They might tell you about some experiences that are horrifying and eye opening. There's a lot of otherwise "normal" people who have really messed up ideas about how sex works and where the boundaries are. They don't think of themselves as rapists and think of themselves as good people, but they're leaving a lot of scars. We should all do our best not to be one of those people, and the best way to do that is to define what's acceptable by enthusiastic consent, not what we want to do or are allowed to do.</quote> @legendary_zell I know you meant to say female so I edited it here and you can edit your original. But yeah that's basically what I said earlier in the topic. If they trust you enough to confide in you you learn some FUCKED things. And sometimes they "tell" you in the way things are phrased but it's not obvious. Like I have one friend who once said "I wish I could have waited" (for her first time) and that's how I found out, and it happening completely changed the course of her life and still impacts her. --- https://imgur.com/bbRWLI8 https:/i.imgur.com/S1m3po4.jpg https://imgur.com/A0BErSV https://imgur.com/7fCcfko</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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