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Topic	Explain something psychological to me.
Sabram 11/11/19 4:32:14 PM #16:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Sabram posted... "If I had just been a better person theyd still be around" It can also be an appeal to the memory or spirit of the departed. If one believes in that. "I finally got rid of all my weird fetish porn, now my wife's spirit can rest easy" That kind of thing. This doesn't seem like bargaining to me. Bargaining to me seems more like an illogical disparate plea. Like "Please God, if you just give her back, I'll never sin again" Or "She was so young, if you could just give us 10 more years Id be forever thankful" I'd say it's more of a step that religious/spirtual people go through The first one is more like denial. Since a person knows that someone deceased cant come back, anything that begs for the person to come back falls into denial and not bargaining. Since bargaining is a further step along the process, the one affected isnt trying to bring them back somehow, but trying to come to terms with their grief by making deals or plans to do things that they think will assuage it, or as said before give peace to the spirit of the departed. --- Check out my YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/user/SaintSabram Switch Friend Code: SW-1661-1393-5330 PSN: Sabram <cite>Sabram posted [p:929990136] in Explain so... [t:78152291]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Sabram posted...</cite> <quote>"If I had just been a better person theyd still be around" It can also be an appeal to the memory or spirit of the departed. If one believes in that. "I finally got rid of all my weird fetish porn, now my wife's spirit can rest easy" That kind of thing.</quote> This doesn't seem like bargaining to me. Bargaining to me seems more like an illogical disparate plea. Like "Please God, if you just give her back, I'll never sin again" Or "She was so young, if you could just give us 10 more years Id be forever thankful" I'd say it's more of a step that religious/spirtual people go through</quote> The first one is more like denial. Since a person knows that someone deceased cant come back, anything that begs for the person to come back falls into denial and not bargaining. Since bargaining is a further step along the process, the one affected isnt trying to bring them back somehow, but trying to come to terms with their grief by making deals or plans to do things that they think will assuage it, or as said before give peace to the spirit of the departed. --- Check out my YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/user/SaintSabram Switch Friend Code: SW-1661-1393-5330 PSN: Sabram</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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