LogFAQs > #931327515

May be a dumb question, but have you aked her what you can do to change? Things obviously aren't going to go back to normal over night if this has been slowly building up over 4 years and it is very possible those 4 years pushed her limits to the edge, but posing that question to her should yield results if she actually wants to salvage the relationship. She should know better than anyone what you need to fix.