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Topic	Having a rough day
J03can 12/09/19 4:47:39 PM #35:	Cleo_II posted... How old are you both? Had she brought up the issue before now? I have a hard time believing its been 6 months of you neglecting her without her mentioning how it effected her. I also feel like there is more to the story. It seems extreme to throw away 12 years and a marriage because your spouse has been neglecting you 6 months. I wouldnt call it a pattern if the last time it happened was 4 years ago. Every marriage/long term relationship will have its downs and the key is to work through them as a couple. Im 37 and shes 31. Yes there is a lot more to the story here, theres been lots of ups and downs over the years. There have been more ups but the downs could be pretty down. linid0t posted... Ya if you waited until she actually followed through with her threats to leave before you actually made a change that kinda proved her point though unfortunately. Shes going to get some freedom back and be gone dude. It's hard but best thing you can so at this stage is continue to better yourself so you'll be a better guy for your next relationship. People split it happens. Trying to amend it is fine but dont go down a desperate road if and when shes clearly moving on. Im trying my best to not go down the desperate road. This topic is helping me in not texting her begging (which i havent done, although i have been desperate when seeing her in person). So thanks to everyone just keeping with the questions to keep me occupied. This is so hard --- Jerry, it's Frank Costanza!!! Mr Steinbrenner's here George is dead - call me back!!!! <cite>J03can posted [p:931335594] in Having a r... [t:78239591]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>How old are you both? Had she brought up the issue before now? I have a hard time believing its been 6 months of you neglecting her without her mentioning how it effected her. I also feel like there is more to the story. It seems extreme to throw away 12 years and a marriage because your spouse has been neglecting you 6 months. I wouldnt call it a pattern if the last time it happened was 4 years ago. Every marriage/long term relationship will have its downs and the key is to work through them as a couple.</quote>Im 37 and shes 31. Yes there is a lot more to the story here, theres been lots of ups and downs over the years. There have been more ups but the downs could be pretty down. linid0t posted... </cite> <quote>Ya if you waited until she actually followed through with her threats to leave before you actually made a change that kinda proved her point though unfortunately. Shes going to get some freedom back and be gone dude. It's hard but best thing you can so at this stage is continue to better yourself so you'll be a better guy for your next relationship. People split it happens. Trying to amend it is fine but dont go down a desperate road if and when shes clearly moving on.</quote>Im trying my best to not go down the desperate road. This topic is helping me in not texting her begging (which i havent done, although i have been desperate when seeing her in person). So thanks to everyone just keeping with the questions to keep me occupied. This is so hard --- Jerry, it's Frank Costanza!!! Mr Steinbrenner's here George is dead - call me back!!!!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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