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ArvTheGreat posted...

Arv has no probably with her saying yes every ten minutes usually its every second

Pretty much. Consent can be more than just a verbal "yes." If your partner is actually enjoying themselves and wants to be there, you won't have to ask because that enthusiasm will be obvious. If it isn't, you should probably consider becoming better at sex.

ScritchOwl posted...

Feminist ruining safe sex for woman. Imagine the potntial effect if the 10 min timer causes you to stop what your doing right when she is building up

That (very obviously biased) article took a hyperbolic question from a 15-year-old and decided that was the entire point, disregarding the clarification from the teacher that they themselves quoted:

Its not a timing thing, but whoever initiates things to another level has to ask.

Quite simply, you do anything new, you make sure they're okay with that. Maybe that means explicitly asking, maybe it just means paying attention to see if they're still comparably enthusiastic about the new thing and offering to do something else if they aren't. Just be aware of the importance of consent and act accordingly at all times. It's really not difficult, as much as right-wing tabloids like to fly off the handle the moment anyone suggests it and start talking about needing a notarized contract for every thrust.

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