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Topic	Just went no contact with my mom
Jen0125 06/05/20 1:06:29 PM #18:	wwinterj25 posted... So what exactly was the line she crossed? I don't normally press personal issues but being as it's posted here I feel shearing is caring or something. We had gone to a protest Tuesday and talked about things going right now and my mom said she was proud of me. So then today she posted something on her Facebook and I reiterated what I had said to her Tuesday just as a general comment and she said that she was ashamed of me and she only told me she was proud so I would stop talking. What kind of parent uses their pride and affection as an emotionally manipulative behavior and then on social media in front of her friends says she's actually ashamed? That was it for me. To say you're ashamed of something to me, in my opinion, is so serious. I'm not ashamed of anything I've done and I've done some stupid shit. So for my mom to use me as a prop online and say she's ashamed of me was too much for me to reconcile. She is always using serious family issues to get attention on social media without regard to the privacy or feelings of the person she's talking about. I can't take it anymore. I'm 30 years old now and I don't need her for anything - financial, physical or emotional. I'm tired of chasing a mother who will never do anything but think of herself. I am so damaged from decades of her always placing blame on me for any issue she's having or if we're having an argument. All I ever have wanted was a family that cared about each other. All I have ever gotten were parents who did everything they could to pit my siblings and I against each other while completely emotionally abusing us. I don't need to deal with it anymore and I won't. If my father reaches out to me like he always does to say I need to apologize to my mom, I'll block him too. EvilMegas posted... Jokes out the door I wholeheartedly support your decision, people often feel as though they have to put up with someone because they are "family". Incorrect. Good on you. Jokes back in the room Can I be your lil momma, since RC is your big momma? Yes, you can. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:940225367] in Just went ... [t:78747665]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted... </cite> <quote>So what exactly was the line she crossed? I don't normally press personal issues but being as it's posted here I feel shearing is caring or something.</quote> We had gone to a protest Tuesday and talked about things going right now and my mom said she was proud of me. So then today she posted something on her Facebook and I reiterated what I had said to her Tuesday just as a general comment and she said that she was ashamed of me and she only told me she was proud so I would stop talking. What kind of parent uses their pride and affection as an emotionally manipulative behavior and then on social media in front of her friends says she's actually ashamed? That was it for me. To say you're ashamed of something to me, in my opinion, is so serious. I'm not ashamed of anything I've done and I've done some stupid shit. So for my mom to use me as a prop online and say she's ashamed of me was too much for me to reconcile. She is always using serious family issues to get attention on social media without regard to the privacy or feelings of the person she's talking about. I can't take it anymore. I'm 30 years old now and I don't need her for anything - financial, physical or emotional. I'm tired of chasing a mother who will never do anything but think of herself. I am so damaged from decades of her always placing blame on me for any issue she's having or if we're having an argument. All I ever have wanted was a family that cared about each other. All I have ever gotten were parents who did everything they could to pit my siblings and I against each other while completely emotionally abusing us. I don't need to deal with it anymore and I won't. If my father reaches out to me like he always does to say I need to apologize to my mom, I'll block him too. EvilMegas posted... </cite> <quote>Jokes out the door I wholeheartedly support your decision, people often feel as though they have to put up with someone because they are "family". Incorrect. Good on you. Jokes back in the room Can I be your lil momma, since RC is your big momma?</quote> Yes, you can. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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