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Anticyclonic posted...

I mean the biggest reason that people worry about those in different age groups dating is because people change and go through different "phases" in life. There's a definite imbalance of power in a relationship between a 27 year old and a 19 year old that doesn't exist between say, a 40 and 48 year old. She has literally been out of high school for one or two years, and doesn't have any real adult life experience. I know that I changed significantly between even just the age of say 19 and 24. Once you've weathered adult life a few years, you kind of get a better handle on exactly what you value in life, which direction you want to go moving forward, etc.
You're coming in with more experience, more money probably, more an idea of how life works, etc than she has which gives you much more power than her in the relationship. Sure, its legal for you to do that but I still it is kinda creepy.
As a 30 year old though, I also wouldn't take a 22 year old for more-or-less the same reason.

She does not plan on going to college so that isn't an issue, she lives with her parents who both like me and know how old I am. We have a lot in common and we enjoy being around each other in general and not just when were fucking. Our personalities work well together. So that's why her age doesnt matter one bit to me


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