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TopicWhat happened to your high school crush?
Zeus
06/28/20 9:20:54 PM
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ParanoidObsessive posted...
This, but with an added touch of "That was 25 years ago for me, and I don't even talk to most of the people I stayed friends with after high school."

Not everyone feels the need to have a Facebook page and obsessively keep track of all the people they went to high school with for the rest of their lives. Some of us just move on.

It also doesn't help that I didn't really HAVE "a" high school crush as much as I had about a half-dozen minor high school crushes, so it's not like I was ever all that super-obsessed over one single girl anyway. But I never bothered keeping track of any of them after we graduated, and I've been in a relationship with the same girl for more than 20 years at this point, so I really don't have those whimsical "Whatever happened to so-and-so?" moments where I'd feel the need to care.

I assume most/all of them went to college (or didn't), eventually met someone they liked, maybe got married (or didn't), maybe had kids (or didn't), and are either happy, sad, or dead right now.

You make it sound like finding out that information would take so much more effort than it actually does. Provided you remember (and can spell) their full name, usually you can get find out what's become of someone with a simple google search >_>

Otherwise YMMV with relationships. I barely keep up with friends I made in college and high school, but my brother is still absurdly close with a friend he made in elementary school despite the fact the two of them haven't lived in the same state for at least a decade. Meanwhile most of the friends I keep up with these days are just people I've met over the last few years (and ever since the quarantine started, I haven't talked to them much either).

chaosbowser posted...
*shakes head* Things going over his head again. He's saying that even in spite of those things you said she's probably still better off.

*shakes head* I got where he was going with it, but apparently my response went over your head again. You see, I was doing this thing called a "comeback". Let me explain it, since you don't seem to understand the concept: Basically when somebody insults you, you respond with an insult in kind, generally within the same theme. So when Winter attempts to use a quality of life as an insult, I referenced his own quality of life as giving him an expertise on low qualities of life. I'm sure it seems very complex to you, but it's the norm... granted, you don't seem to understand norms, I should mention that this is also a comeback. You attempted to overexplain what happened as an insult by pretending I didn't get what he said, so I'm overexplaining what I did then overexplaining my overexplanation.

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