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ParanoidObsessive posted...

No, I'm making it sound like my ability to give a shit about the subject is so low that even the minimal effort it would take to cyber-stalk people is too much (even aside from the fact that cyber-stalking people at all is a bit creepy/sad).

I've probably given more thought to the subject in this topic than I have over the last 20 years combined.

I can't speak for everyone here, but I know because the first instance is just living in a small town and running into said person.

Second being that my ex talked to them and they asked him to give me their number and we were chatting. Along with unavoidable small town bs.

I didn't really put effort into it. The most effort I put in was reconnecting with an old friend that reached out first.

You act like people have to try to know stuff. Depending on where you live and if you stayed in touch you really may not need to. People stay in touch or reconnect after school all the time.

I find the idea of stalking people weird, but let's be real the definition seems to not even be the same person to person anymore.

Considering how unavoidable small town gossip was for a while, I'm actually surprised I don't know anything about the other crush I had. Can't say I even thought about her until this topic.