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lincoln002 posted...

I've expressed interest in her pretty bluntly a few months back when I added her and she caught my attention and she responded fairly positively. I've messaged her several times after that and got no responses, it was silly stuff to make small talk. I leave comments on her statuses and sometimes she replies, she almost always leaves a emoji to my stuff, it's kind of annoying cuz what I say is usually not funny. We haven't flirted, at least not that I'm aware of.

so you messaged her, she didn't reply and you thought "i'll ask for something even more, then she'll respond!" and if (more likely when) that doesn't work, your solution is "i'll ask her for something even bigger!"

do you see the issue there? as a seduction expert, the term we use is that you've exceeded your social capital. no point in asking for B when she wouldn't even give you A first

your issue isn't that you didn't ask her out or express enough interest. it's that you don't have enough value that she considers you worthy enough to respond to. so if she doesn't consider you worthy enough to respond to, what makes you think she'll consider meeting up with you in person? by violating that tenent of social capital, all you're ensuring is she'll never go out with you as you're illustrating your lack of social understanding and lack of value

what you need to do is address your root issue and get her to respond and build up the convo. and im willing to bet the reason she doesn't respond is because your texts are just absolutely terrible and give you 0 value (and probably even takes away any value you previously had)
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