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No_U_L7 posted...

so you messaged her, she didn't reply and you thought "i'll ask for something even more, then she'll respond!" and if (more likely when) that doesn't work, your solution is "i'll ask her for something even bigger!"

do you see the issue there? as a seduction expert, the term we use is that you've exceeded your social capital. no point in asking for B when she wouldn't even give you A first

your issue isn't that you didn't ask her out or express enough interest. it's that you don't have enough value that she considers you worthy enough to respond to. so if she doesn't consider you worthy enough to respond to, what makes you think she'll consider meeting up with you in person? by violating that tenent of social capital, all you're ensuring is she'll never go out with you as you're illustrating your lack of social understanding and lack of value

what you need to do is address your root issue and get her to respond and build up the convo. and im willing to bet the reason she doesn't respond is because your texts are just absolutely terrible and give you 0 value (and probably even takes away any value you previously had)

Dog, if she doesn't like me now and doesn't show compassion and understanding towards me and the situation I'm in then she's not worth my time at all. I'm not looking for a 1 night stand, I'm looking for a girl that is going to accept me for me and not because I have "value". If she doesn't like me then she doesn't like me, no point in manipulating her into bed with me, that's gross guy.

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