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TopicHow far off are you from where you imagined yourself as a child?
Pus_N_Pecans
07/15/20 2:30:42 PM
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:( I'm sorry. Hopefully they're able to work something out for ya.

KogaSteelfang posted...
So far off. I thought things would change after high school, that I'd find a job I'd enjoy, make some friends, buy a house, get travel a little, find a gf, get married and have kids.

Instead, I stayed a loser, work a dead end job that I don't care for, have no money, no friends, live at home at an embarrassing age, can't manage to find a date... So all my biggest life goals are out the window and I have nothing to look forward to.
It's never too late to turn things around though. By most measures, I'm living in abject poverty, but I'm still proud of where I'm at. I think it's best to focus on one area if you're feeling too overwhelmed with everything else. If you're improving in some element, it tends to benefit other aspects of your life as well. (At least in my experience)

Dreamscissors posted...
I'll be 30 in just under a week, I didn't think I'd still be alive to reach 20 so that's pretty far off. I had absolutely no idea what I wanted to do or if I'd be able to do anything at all. My adult life has found me too unwell mentally and more recently physically to hold down a job, but I've got a happy home, a wonderful daughter and a loving partner. I've got a better life than I ever anticipated or hoped for even if by most people's standards I haven't achieved anything and people online don't ever hesitate in letting me know how they feel.
I think that measuring a person's "worth" based on financial or otherwise subjective merits isn't any way to determine success. If you're content with what you have or where you're at, and you're living a fulfilling life, that's all that really matters in the end. I do hope you're able to work through your struggles though!

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