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Topic	Have you ever "experimented" with your unattracted sex?
OpenlyGator 08/29/20 7:49:12 AM #10:	Have you ever "experimented" with your unattracted sex? Yes, many gay people actually do in their early years. It's often a phase in which we want to be sure about our sexuality before fully investing in it as part of our identity. It's not an uncommon occurrence for those of us raised in traditional heterosexual households/neighborhoods where being straight is the encouraged norm. The common conditioning of youth towards being straight is not necessarily sinister (parents want their kids to fit in with the majority norm for the highest chances of success), but it can be an awkward hurdle for those of us who discover we're definitely not straight... Some gay people go through dating and sexual experimentation before confirming they're undeniably homosexual. Sometimes we have to try it to know for sure. This can occasionally result in a person contributing to a pregnancy despite later coming to the (sometimes unexpected and inconvenient) conclusion that they are gay. --- The funny thing about telling others to take the high road is how often it's hypocritical advice. http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/28/IdSqD.png <cite>OpenlyGator posted [p:943960464] in Have you e... [t:78936135]...</cite> <quote><quote>Have you ever "experimented" with your unattracted sex?</quote>Yes, many gay people actually do in their early years. It's often a phase in which we want to be sure about our sexuality before fully investing in it as part of our identity. It's not an uncommon occurrence for those of us raised in traditional heterosexual households/neighborhoods where being straight is the encouraged norm. The common conditioning of youth towards being straight is not necessarily sinister (parents want their kids to fit in with the majority norm for the highest chances of success), but it can be an awkward hurdle for those of us who discover we're definitely not straight... Some gay people go through dating and sexual experimentation before confirming they're undeniably homosexual. Sometimes we have to try it to know for sure. This can occasionally result in a person contributing to a pregnancy despite later coming to the (sometimes unexpected and inconvenient) conclusion that they are gay. --- The funny thing about telling others to take the high road is how often it's hypocritical advice. http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/28/IdSqD.png</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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