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Joker98 12/11/20 11:19:40 PM #34: | TommyG663513 posted... Physical attraction for me honestly boils down to her carrying a bit of extra weight. I can't phrase it any more delicately than that. This also ties into her not being all that athletic and being super avoidant of physical activity. She can be pretty lazy at times. It really isn't as much her body as it is her whole attitude about it. Her comment about a motorized bicycle really filled me with disgust and I can't tolerate going along with that idea in any minor way. I just can't. This is definitely a big issue and it really dwarfs my other concerns although those still have some importance. So all things considered, you've mentioned that her physical appearance and lack of athletic ability are the two biggest factors. Generally you can't force people to change, especially if they don't want to, so I wouldn't expect her to suddenly become athletic. If this is a deal breaker for you, then I think you may have your answer. When you started dating her, did you know she wasn't athletic? When did this become an issue? I could see why it would be hard to communicate this with her for multiple reasons: A) she's taken it poorly in the past, and B) It's a conversation that could potentially lead to you breaking up. I imagine she has some idea that her lack of interest in athleticism is a problem that's affecting you and the relationship? Has she mentioned how she plans to address this before, or is she simply ignoring this issue altogether? Does her ability to make you laugh outweigh the fact that she isn't athletic? --- ~~Every day I'm husseling and busseling~~ ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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