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Topic	How the fuck did the 40 year old virgin become reality for so many
Greenfox111 07/16/21 2:57:01 PM #27:	faramir77 posted... Most romantic relationships require effort. Each person needs to work towards maintaining the relationship. Organizing dates, keeping things new and interesting, lots of frequent contact, etc. You'll still hear this from couples that have been together for decades. I don't see that as authentic. My friends aren't a conditional relationship, there aren't set parameters or expectations to meet for them to continue being your friend. I recognize that my opinion is unpopular and particularly strikes a nerve with people that are married or are in long term relationships. But I can't commit to a relationship that is dependent on what I contribute. I have times where I need space, and this isn't particularly compatible with conditional relationships. Basically, I don't want a relationship that is conditional to what I (or she) puts into it. so you don't feel that maintaining a relationship should require any effort at all? --- Don't ask. <cite>Greenfox111 posted [p:956148779] in How the fu... [t:79566977]...</cite> <quote>faramir77 posted... </cite> <quote>Most romantic relationships require effort. Each person needs to work towards maintaining the relationship. Organizing dates, keeping things new and interesting, lots of frequent contact, etc. You'll still hear this from couples that have been together for decades. I don't see that as authentic. My friends aren't a conditional relationship, there aren't set parameters or expectations to meet for them to continue being your friend. I recognize that my opinion is unpopular and particularly strikes a nerve with people that are married or are in long term relationships. But I can't commit to a relationship that is dependent on what I contribute. I have times where I need space, and this isn't particularly compatible with conditional relationships. Basically, I don't want a relationship that is conditional to what I (or she) puts into it.</quote>so you don't feel that maintaining a relationship should require any effort at all? --- Don't ask.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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