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TopicIs it reasonable for your s/o to ask you not to meet friends of the opposite sex
Xfma100
09/22/21 9:49:41 AM
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FatalAccident posted...
Is it reasonable for your s/o to ask you not to spend time with a friend of the opposite sex...

No, it's not reasonable.

FatalAccident posted...
in your house alone?

Depends. Is this friend an ex? Does this friend have feelings for my SO and dislikes the fact that we are in a relationship together? Does my SO have feelings for them? How often does this occur? Because it would be weird for someone to frequently spend a significant amount of time alone with a friend of the opposite sex instead of spending time together with their SO imo. Especially if they are meeting this friend in secret.

I feel like in certain scenarios it's okay for someone to voice their concerns and want to talk about setting certain reasonable boundaries. If either partner disagrees with those boundaries or breaks them, then the couple can simply break up and move on.

With all that said, cheaters gonna cheat. So if something weird is going on, definitely try to get to the bottom of it. You don't want to invest time into a long term relationship where someone has been cheating on you behind your back.
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