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TopicIs infidelity a black/white issue for you?
I4NRulez
10/30/21 6:07:59 PM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
I would never be okay with somebody cheating on me, no matter what the explanation was. Give me the respect of breaking up with me, at least. Don't just use me while I'm convenient and take advantage of my trust until you've worked up the courage to admit that you willingly destroyed any chance of our relationship ever working.

and you shouldn't be. I wasn't either. I was cheated on in one of my relationships in my early 20s. It took me a while to get over trust issues. I talked to my therapist about it and I came to realize I wasn't perfect either. Things led up to her cheating but I'm not saying what she did was justified at all. I'm saying its not always "I hate you and I cheated".

I still havent forgiven her but im not mad anymore. It just made me realize good and bad people cheat and the circumstances that get people there arent the same. Its not as black and white as "FUCK MY PARTNER IM EVIL AND IM GONNA CHEAT"

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