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Topic	I've come to terms with being single and no longer feel like shit because of it.
Muscles 11/18/21 9:54:20 PM #17:	CoorsLight posted... The way you describe your experiences asking girls out sounds like how I used to apply for jobs, which was to put my resume in for basically everything that I was at some minimum level qualified for, even if I knew they were gonna see me as underqualified, or if it didn't even sound interesting to me. You end up getting in your own head with shit like that, and focusing on your "success" rate and making it a self-fulfilling prophecy that "no one wants me" because you're just setting yourself up for failure at an elevated rate. And I mean you can do that but that's what you do when you're confident and can handle the rejection, not when you get mad at rejection None of the individual rejections hurt. I get it, girls have bfs or shit going on or they just don't like me that way (been plenty of girls I don't see that way so I get it) but it adds up. Like, I know I can make someone happy if they give me a chance but I don't really get any chances to prove myself. --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies <cite>Muscles posted [p:960131167] in I've come ... [t:79766491]...</cite> <quote>CoorsLight posted... </cite> <quote>The way you describe your experiences asking girls out sounds like how I used to apply for jobs, which was to put my resume in for basically everything that I was at some minimum level qualified for, even if I knew they were gonna see me as underqualified, or if it didn't even sound interesting to me. You end up getting in your own head with shit like that, and focusing on your "success" rate and making it a self-fulfilling prophecy that "no one wants me" because you're just setting yourself up for failure at an elevated rate. And I mean you can do that but that's what you do when you're confident and can handle the rejection, not when you get mad at rejection</quote>None of the individual rejections hurt. I get it, girls have bfs or shit going on or they just don't like me that way (been plenty of girls I don't see that way so I get it) but it adds up. Like, I know I can make someone happy if they give me a chance but I don't really get any chances to prove myself. --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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