LogFAQs > #960368545

Been ghosted quite a few times. Many of them I can understand, 1 that stands out was just ridiculous. I had a coffee date set up with this girl when I was in my mid 20s, she was 21/22. I show up to the place 10 minutes early, and she no shows. That's fine, I get anxiety myself, but not only does she no show, but when I get back to my house 20 minutes after the scheduled meetup I find out from my roommate that she texted him asking if he wanted to come over.

He had no idea who she was, never heard from her before, and he's a very portly individual. Something like 5'6 340 lbs. Very nice dude, but not someone you would immediately imagine getting that text. Plus he was already in the process of seeing a chick and just forgot to deactivate his pof account.

I get it, you don't want to meet up, they can be scary, but have the decency to say "sorry, I don't feel comfortable meeting you".

I'm a very messed up person, when I was in my 20s I suffered from ADD, Tourettes and Undiagnosed Sleep Apnea which messes up your mind quite a bit as you don't process information properly and makes you a bit more awkward around people. But of the 15 or so people that I've met up with for dates only 5 of them actually didn't get a 2nd date.

3 of them were psychopaths, 1 was an idiot, and the last we just didn't meld romantically but became close friends. And btw when I mean psychopath, I mean psychopath.

Person 1 got pissed off at me for buying her a single flower on our 3rd date, proceeded to tell me that if I ever broke up with her she'd make me disappear and when I told her to get out of the car proceeded to ask me to come inside her home and get her pregnant. Person 2 lied up front about smoking, drank all my liquor while I was sleeping, and had multiple ID cards which I only found out after she went into a full blown alcohol induced seizure (do you realize how much booze you have to drink to have one of those?), and the 3rd just talked about putting her co-workers into a meat grinder which ended the date there and then. The idiot just invited me to her gig and then proceeded to avoid me the entire night.