I'm straight, but I feel something like this should be a part of someone's personal journey.
yea, it would be nice to be with someone who's open with who they are, but there's often a real threat that "coming out" might burn some bridges for the original, or at least change the dynamics in some of their other relationships.
for some people, it might be easier to say, "if you don't accept me for who I am, I don't need you in my life," but for others, they might not feel ready ready to potentially lose the bond they might have with a sibling, change how their parents might see them, and so on.
so at the very least, I don't think ultimatums like that are helpful to anyone.
