LogFAQs > #961194583

First of all, if you are talking about them saying it's ok to date, then that has nothing to do with having something in common. Anyone can date anyone they want for any reason they want. Both are consenting adults, so why would it bother you who dates who? Not to mention, a 9 year difference isn't even that big...

As for what they have in common, it could literally be anything. I watched shows I like with people 15-20 years older who like the same shows. Or games. I was playing video games with my mom the other day. Or food. Or some random hobby you have. Or literally whatever. Some people connect over hobbies they both have. And I believe the majority of hobbies (or at least common ones) don't really have an age limit... I mean, they could even have a similar job. Or work at the same place or whatever...

I mean, there are plenty of age gap relationships out there... And many work just fine...

epik_fail1 posted...

Anywya my ex was about the same age and we barely had anything in common

And there, stuff like this could happen. I barely had anything in common with my other exes, who were all within a few years of my age. We like different stuff almost completely. But my recent BFs who all had an age gap had much more in common with me...