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Cocytus posted...

Hmmm, sounds like it's kind of your call then, I guess. You know what would be weird/funny, if you hyped it all up and she got all in to it because you put so much in to it and you keep doing that every year and then decades later she mentions she's not really in to Valentine's Day but she goes along with it because you seem to like it so much lol

It is possible. But it's the first Valentine's. Better to make her feel special even if she doesn't need it than the alternative of not meeting some expectations. Even if she doesn't care much, she will when her coworkers or friends are jealous.

The best thing is sending flowers to her work on an anniversary or something so all the coworkers get all excited for her. I am not doing that on Valentine's though, as stupidly expensive. I'll just buy some $20 bouquet at the store for when she gets home.

I still say not to overdo it. But just dinner, a small gift and maybe flowers shows you care.