From: ShadowHalo17 | #153
That's what I thought it was for me. It was so simple and great when I was with her and I never thought it would end. I was so happy. We were perfect for each other.
But then she had to be stupid and not realize that she sort of had a crush on this guy and also not realize that alcohol makes you do stupid s***.
Sad for her. Then she just made it worse. So now I'm forcing myself to hate her right now. Even though I still love her and she still loves me and we always will. Doesn't matter at this point. I just have to force myself to hate her right now because it helps.
You sounds just like my roommate. Be glad she even felt bad. This dude dated this girl for like 4 years and wanted to marry her and junk and she would disappeardays at a time just "staying over" a friends house cus shed get too drunk. The story eventually comes out that she was just so unhappy with him that she was putting herself in situations where she could be with someone else as much as possible without having to face the harshness of a real breakup.
If she was willing to put herself in that situation, odds are she was probably unhappy for some reason and you and probably even she didnt realize it. It is for the best and that she felt the guilt and need to tell you should make you feel at least a little happy. That said, stop falling into the trap. Girls dont fall for sad. The pity relationship isnt going to happen. You need just go do what you used to always do and trust that if things with you and her were meant work out down the line, they will no matter what you do.
Dont hate her, just pity her for being so sad and pathetic right now and get on with yourself. The best way to move on is to let it all slide away. The obsession will kill you and your future love life if you let it and that doesnt end well.
--
http://img.imgcake.com/nio/81edpngej.png
The one and only Underdog Millionaire and UCA CORPORATE Champion