with that said, i see no problem with somebody wanting to have a discussion about why they do or dont believe in god and religion
The problem with most atheist 'evangelists' isn't that they're elitist-that they're too exclusionary, standoffish and secretive.
The problem is that they're too inclusionary. On some level, they assume that the other party would be able to agree with them on logical, evidential or epistemological grounds and so assume that theists could be convinced.
You never actually see atheist elitists talk to theists because asking "Is there a god?" is simply a sad, wrong mistaken question that never should have been asked in the first place to them.
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