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OliviaTremor posted...

Never claimed she wasn't into you. I said it was presumptuous, you elaborated with slightly more details, and I clarified why the way you initially presented the information was funny to me.

If she was interested in you reach out to her and figure out what is or was going on. Maybe she has a boyfriend but is unhappy in the relationship. You won't know unless you ask. If that doesn't work or is no longer an option it may be good to move on and try not fixate on this. It'll only make you feel worse about yourself even though you didn't do anything wrong. Everyone has a story similar to yours, myself included, where something really odd happens.

I am sorry I have pissed you off, and I could have handled my posts more tactfully, but I am empathetic.

I was informed that you apologized, so I took you off "the list." Thank you for apologizing. And I had elaborated about this girl in the depression topic and how I was struggling with this whole thing. Because you didn't know about that, I'll elaborate some more.

What I believe to have happened is that she was unhappy and showed interest in me. Then her boyfriend took her on a trip to Canada (which she told me about) to make her happy again. The next time I saw her after that, I asked her to coffee and got a "Maybe." I know I should've made my move that day she showed the overwhelming interest - I'd have gotten a "Yes" and she'd be in a bind when her boyfriend surprised her. This is the first girl that's my type that has shown such interest in me. And believe me, I TRIED to move on, but for some reason I couldn't - that's why it was a struggle.

I am mostly over it by now because her interest is no longer there. She felt BAD about the whole thing. And that only made it harder on me. So yeah. I don't have any "growing up" to do with this, thanks.