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TopicProbably going to regret this post, but I'm hoping for some relationship advice
Twin3Turbo
10/09/18 11:12:05 AM
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VipaGTS posted...
LooksLikeDarko posted...
VipaGTS posted...
What's the problem? Can she afford the rent on her own? So she just decided to get an apartment on her own and said you can move in when you're ready....I'm not seeing the issue...

A. She made a big decision without considering my input
B. If something happens to her car or she has medical issues or something, she's fucked. She has enough money to pay for it assuming nothing bad happens. I think she made a hasty and irresponsible decision

why did she have to consider your input, though? you two aren't married. She got an apartment for herself that she can afford. she didn't give you an ultimatum. she just said when you feel like you're ready you're welcome into her apartment. i think you're overreacting...

Pretty much

Y'all aren't married or engaged. She made a financial decision for herself. It sounds like in your opinion it was probably a bad decision, and THAT I would agree is something that you should at least consider going forward because that type of behavior is likely to continue. However at the end of the day she's entitled to do that. Like someone else said, this is her apartment and it's in her name and she really doesn't need your input.
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