If you leave every door to your house unlocked, and a thief robs it, the thief did the crime yes.
But Im still gonna give you shit for being an idiot. The robber being bad is the obvious thing.
you're fighting the wrong battle. you should be giving people shit for being thiefs not for people being naiive
Thieves and people who do crime typically wont care if I try to persuade them not to.
Work on fortifying the innocents defenses instead of trying to weaken the scumbags offense is my logic.
fair enough I guess, but I don't think getting raped by a friend by saying she should have known is a good place to start. thank god I live in California not some backwater shithole where this is considered totally okay