It would be easier on her to ask if i can give her my number and leave it with her than put her on the spot by asking her on a date there and then. The intent will be clear (why the fuck else would I leave her my number??) and it gives her a way out if she wants it
you know what, not a bad plan
It seems thought-out and considerate toward her
Good, cause that's important to me
Have fun not getting a call back.
I'm not so little of a man to let a rejection affect me in any big way
It's not about rejection. Your strategy is simply not good. ---