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biggernails posted...

Lyrica posted...

If a guy is willing to hit on a woman, buy her a drink, take her home, and then she says, "I'm trans," well, there's no denying that the guy was ATTRACTED to her. There's no such thing as being "tricked" into something you're attracted to. You're either attracted or you're not.

Okay so what about the case where a woman finds out a man is poorer than she thought when she goes back home with him. Is she then obligated to still be attracted if she no longer is? The fact is attraction is a complicated thing and is sometimes tied to expectations and possibilities.

If that's the case then the woman was never really attracted to the man to begin with. She obviously just wanted his money.

Preference is a thing. I'm not denying that. But it's not a case of preference if you're attracted to someone and then you're suddenly not attracted when you find out the person was born the same sex. That is transphobia because obviously you believe sleeping with someone who is trans is an abomination despite the attraction.