whether or not you agree with Blaire White, you're not going to get very far tryin to socially strongarm people into dating partners they ain't into
"oh but you wanted me before you knew i was trans" =/= actually attracted to you
it means they were attracted to what they THOUGHT you were BIG difference...
if you wanna identify as a different gender than what you were born as, more power to you just remember that not everyone you try to date is gonna agree with your assessment and thats just how it has to be
This is complete bullshit. If you attracted to someone, you are attracted to them.
they're attracted to what they THINK the person is, the whole package
if evidence shows what they thought doesn't match with what they presumed the person was, don't be shocked that the attraction suddenly takes a nosedive
i got nothin personally against trans folk, but i'm never surprised when someone exclusively lookin for cis partners says nope to dating trans (because thats the preference of most people in the world)
I don't think anyone here is surprised by that. we're saying that it's discriminatory against trans people to do so, and is in line with a societal system that discriminates against trans people. ---