welcome to the world of modern dating its casually loaded with prejudice and discrimination thats a commonly practiced natural aspect of it theres even mainstream dating apps crafted to filter certain people out anyone whos a minority knows this, because we feel the brunt of it...
if you dont match what someone else wants, all you can do is toughen up buttercup and try elsewhere
you think thats wrong and the world needs to change? okay tell us your plan for convincing most people to accept dating trans people because right now most people don't
people thinking about their preferences and recognizing that their preferences are informed by a societal system that fundamentally does not respect trans people as human beings would be a decent start
okay, you convinced a bunch of people that their sexual/dating preferences are influenced by a "systemic whatever" and accept that unshockingly most of them are still not interested in changing their dating habits, shrug and just continue with their familiar preferences after the guilt trip
what now? how do you proceed to convince them to accept dating trans people?
you have to have more to your little campaign than "just so know that's bad and here's why" you said making people more aware was a start...okay, how are you convincing people to care about your message? whats their incentive?
if guilt is all you're really selling, don't be shocked if the average person browbeating turns away more audiences than attracts...especially when you're trying to convince them to like something
we were talking ideas before. this is moving into the "action" area. they are separate conversations, and I am not willing to have the latter conversation with someone who does not already accept the ideas I brought up for the former.